L.Gasimova

Seeing children loitering around in the street, one wonders where their parents are and what they are doing.

As a rule, the father is at work on weekdays or has his own affairs at the weekend. The mothers watch numerous television series, drink tea with friends, or talk for hours on the phone with relatives.

The father goes to work in the morning, when the kids are still asleep, and comes back in the evening, when they are already asleep.

In the morning, seeing off their husbands to work, women see off their children into the street and begin either washing or cleaning and are not interested what's the deal with their children in the backyard.

Well, when the mother finally comes out into the yard, then she sits down on the bench, chewing sunflower seeds, and begins endless conversations with the neighbors. She is so taken away that she is not paying attention to her child, who is at the time romping in the sand or water or playing with boys, throwing stones, breaking tree branches, playing with cats or football, and running out onto the road.

This lack of attention could end badly. The child can have his head punched with a stone, or he may fall and break something, climbing up the tree. He can get his feet wet and get sick. But it probably does not concern the mom very much. It is much more interesting for her to find out that the new neighbors will arrange a wedding soon, to learn who is marrying their daughter, and what engagement gifts came to them.

And it would be nice to play with the child ball games, or badminton, or noughts and crosses, or just to feed kittens together, instilling love and compassion for the little creatures who live next to us.

And if a child is a student, who helps him to do homework? It is fine if the parents have education and they are able to help their children solve problems, explain theorems or write an essay. But if the mother or father are poorly educated, then the children will not be able to get help in the family and will do poorly at school. Therefore, parents should educate ourselves, read books, use the Internet to gather knowledge that they could share with their children.

On weekends and public holidays the father is bored at home and looking for an excuse to leave. He calls to friends or relatives to go to a tea-house or a cafe. It is better for him to spend his day off in the garage than devote time to his wife and children. After all, he does not even realize that he could go to the park, a theater, or an exhibition together with his family.

Well, the mother takes the kids and goes to visit her sister, aunt or mother. There, she will utter the soul with relatives, and the children, as always, will be somewhere in the street. And no one will care what they are doing again.

The next situation is going to a wedding party. This event is not only for the newlyweds, but also for the guests.

But the father is sitting at the table not with his family, but with other men. The children, after eating, are running around the room, climbing under the tables and swirling around the bride and groom. Their mum at this time is having a snack and breaking into a dance that will continue until the end of the party. Our women love dancing really. And where is the child's education, from where should the child learn how to behave at a wedding? After all, he does not know what he can and cannot do in a particular place.

Parents should teach their children how to behave and where, how and with whom to talk, and to be an example for the children.

It is necessary from childhood to prepare children for life in society. There is a need to develop a style and taste of the child. Parents need to choose the right games for children, so that they are informative and educational, but in any case not racing and shooting games at the Playstation.

A child needs to know not only the " I want", but also the "I have to." You cannot dismiss children, including boys, from cleaning their room, washing dishes, at least for themselves, going to the store for groceries or to the market. The child has to get used to the fact that in order to achieve anything in life we ​​have to learn and work hard.

Our children will be what we ourselves make of them. And if they behave inappropriately, the blame is on us - the parents.

The most important and valuable thing in life is a family! At first, the one in which we were born, and then the one that we made!

ANN.Az